"Not so Deep as a Well: Collected Poems" by Dorothy Parker

Dorothy Parker was known for her wit, but but there seemed to be a sad edge to her sadness. She was a member of the Algonquin Round Table. Her stories and poems are worth remembering more than the quotes that are attributed to te members of that group. In reading her poems I sometimes do not know whether to laugh or cry. There are references to promiscuity and to wanting to be dead. A couple of lined that stand out to me are:
     "The Lads I met in Cupid's deadlock
     Were - shall we say? - born out of wedlock."
She often wrote about failed relationships where one may look for those who will accept them as they are, but where they are not happy with those who do. I wish I did not have to return the book to the library. I like to be able to reread her poems from time to time.

Feeling Uneasy

Today I am going to go to a service at a church that I used to attend. I am somewhat nervous about this. I started feeling uncomfortable there. It is one of the churches in this city that I helped to start, but people started treating me like an outsider when I returned after I had lived in another city. People tended to believe rumors they heard about and judging me based on these rumors instead of asking if the rumor were true. I lived in a house close to the church, and some people would watch to see what I was doing. They said that they were worried about me. If they were worried about me they could talk to me instead of spying on me. I have since I attended this church years ago. I changed my name. The people at the church still call me Bruce. Most of the friends I have now call me Vlk. I do not think that they are bad people. They are doing the best that they can. I don't know how they will receive me. I would like to be be wearing better clothes. I haven't shaved or had my hair cut since April. I hope that they do not judge me by my outward appearance. I hope they do not judge me at all. I hope we can all accept each other as we are. It may be time for me to move on, but I want to remain friends with some of the people at the church.

"Address Unknown" by Kressmann Taylor

"Address Unknown" was a powerful story that was first published in Story Magazine in 1938. The publisher of the magazine and the author's husband thought that the story was too strong to appear under a woman's name. I do not understand. Women had been publishing strong literature under their own names for years at that time. The author's name was Kathrine Kressman Taylor. It was an indictment of the Nazis in Germany. The magazine in which it was published quickly sold out. It has since been published in several languages. The author published other works, and she became a professor of creative writing. She was the first  woman to be granted tenure at Gettysburg College.

Clouds from a twisted perspective

The other day I saw clouds that looked like the ones that some people say look like Jesus. Then after a minute I looked again, and the clouds looked like a man with a beard (maybe Moses) who was getting ready to masturbate. Then I looked over the building that people here call the city's cock. There was a hole in the clouds. This hole resembled an anus as if the building was going to fuck the sky. I must have a twisted imagination to see things that way, but I love having a twisted imagination...lol

A Couple of Disappointing Books

I started to read two books that I thought I was going to enjoy. I did try to like them, but I did not make it very far in reading them. They are The Giant's House: A Romance by Elizabeth McCracken and Best Day Ever by Kaira Rouda. I almost liked The Giant's House, but it lacks something. I can almost relate with the main characters, but too they seem to be types instead of well formed characters. The author was young when she wrote this book. She has talent. I would be interested if she grew as a writer. Best Day Ever is an incredibly boring thriller. The narrator is arrogant and seems to lack imagination. There is a description of the death of a couple of people early in the book. The author succeeded in making that boring. It takes talent to be this boring. I thought that some of my writing is boring, but even I haven't written anything as boring as this.

Somewhere Being an Introvert and an Extrovert

I did learn some things from Susan Cain's book, but too much of the book seemed to make things black and white. At the end of the book she briefly stated that most people are somewhere between being introverts and extroverts. I know that I have traits of introverts, but I also have traits of extroverts. I prefer spending time with friends one on one. From time to time I need time alone to recharge, but I also need to be able to spend time with friends one on one also to recharge. Being around a large of people can be draining for me, but it can also be something that I enjoy. It depends on the circumstances. If I am among a group of people who let me be myself without fear of having anyone say that I am strange I can be outgoing. It is said that introverts do not stand up straight. I try to maintain good posture with my head held up, my back straight and my shoulders up. I find it more comfortable. Often people think that I am taller than I am because of this. When I speak up in front of a large number of people, in a lecture for example, I tend to feel nervous, but if I think that there is something that I need to say I do not let that stop me. After having done this I feel a sense of accomplishment from having stepped outside of my comfort zone. Sometimes I feel energized by this. I do not speak out unless I feel that what I have is important. I find that by not speaking often that what I say is more effective.

It is said that introverts do not work well with loud music. For me it depends on what kind of music it is and what the task that I am doing. If I find the music to be boring I tend to make more mistakes. Some kinds of music make some tasks easier for me. This is especially true if I am doing something repetitive. Music that was intended to be played softly irritates me if it is played loudly. I also work better with music if I have control over what music is played.

Yes, I know that this needs to be edited. I have more to say on this subject. I will write more at a later date if I remember to do so.

"Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain (updated)

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, by Susan Cain, is a mediocre book. The title is misleading. It is about both extroverts and introverts. One of the things that I find annoying about books like this is that they seem to be aimed exclusively at heterosexuals with families. All of the relationships mentioned are heterosexual. I think that these books should be more inclusive. There also seems to be too much focus on business situations. The author went to a seminar led by Tony Robbins. The attendees that she describes sound more like people mindlessly following a charismatic leader than they do extroverts. After reading this book I have more questions than I did before I read it. It is not until the very end of the book that she talks about most people not being completely introverts or extroverts. I feel more comfortable one on one with friends as do most introverts, but I also have traits that most extroverts do. Too little attention is given to the things that I could do to help myself to feel comfortable being an introvert, but I realize that I am somewhere between being an introvert and being an extrovert. (I will write more about that in another post) This book fits in with the best-sellers that I mentioned in the post yesterday. I feel that people praise this book, because other people did.

Here are a couple of things that do not make sense. She wrote, "Even the Western God is assertive, vocal and dominant; his son Jesus is kind and tender, but also a charismatic, crowd-pleasing man of influence (Jesus Christ Superstar). Doesn't she know that there were religious groups who were very unhappy with the portrayal of Jesus in this musical? She uses this as an example of the portrayal of Jesus, wtf? She said that the editor of this book "has got to be most brilliant and dedicated editor in the business." Any editor that allows a paragraph to begin "But although," could not possibly be a very good editor. This is a poorly edited book. I had a hard time finishing the book. I kept hoping that it would get better, but it never did.