No tolerance for intolerance

I want to make it clear that by no means am I anti-Christian. I know that there are Christians who show the true love of Christ. It is those who claim to be Christians yet treat those who are not Christian with disdain and intolerance with whom I have problem. I have the same problem with people of any religious persuasion who look down on those views do not agree with their own. I remember seeing on local access TV years a discussion panel of fundamentalist atheists. I could only take a few minutes of their program, because they thought of their own point of view as being the only intelligent one. The people on this panel looked miserable, and I think they wanted other people to be as miserable as they. Telling anyone that they are wrong to believe as they do is not going to lead them to change. It will only lead them to see you as an intolerant prick. Currently I am struggling with faith. Some Christians when you tell them this start preaching at you. What I need is love, acceptance and prayer.