I have always preferred to give gifts to loved ones spontaneously rather than on occasions when gifts are expected. I like to give out of love rather than obligation. One of my exes could not understand. This does not mean that I would not give gifts on holidays and birthday. I just enjoy doing it more on other occasions. Sometimes I would see something that would make me think of him, and I would buy it for him. I am good at remembering what people like, and I enjoy giving things that the receiver will like. I would prefer receiving gifts in the same way. There is less pressure when gifts are given spontaneously. One of my exes would want me to do things for him when he did things for me. I preferred doing things out of love rather than out of a feeling of obligation. He was also my first relationship that was based more on love rather than sex, so I was learning. We are still friends, and his friendship is valuable to me. I hope someday to find someone to whom I can show love spontaneously and whom I can please.
Guten Tag.
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